You Are More Than You Think You Are
This post is by the Lady of The house
This blog started as a promise we made to ourselves, to each other, and to the people who might need to hear it: you are not alone, and you are not less than. We’re a married couple who believes in love, healing, and the power of community. We’ve had our own struggles, our own doubts, and our own moments of feeling like we’ve lost our way. But we’ve also learned that healing isn’t about staying on a straight path; it’s about coming back, again and again, to the reason we started.The reason we started was simple: to help people move and to help people heal. Not to preach, not to pretend we have all the answers, but to share stories—good ones, messy ones, different ones—so that someone, somewhere, might read them and feel seen. So that someone might realize, “Oh, I’m not the only one who feels this way.”If you’re reading this, you’ve probably had moments where you felt “less than” because of something about your body—maybe your size, your looks, or the way you think people judge you. Maybe you’ve told yourself, “If I were bigger, stronger, or different in some way, then I’d finally feel like a real man, like a real person.” But we need you to hear this clearly: you are already enough, exactly as you are.Your worth isn’t measured by inches, muscles, or how you compare to someone else. It’s measured by the love you give, the kindness you show, and the way you keep showing up for the people who matter even on days when you don’t feel like showing up for yourself.When the world feels heavy and people throw judgment your way, remember this: there are people who love you, even when you can’t see it. There are people who will stand by your side, who will remind you that you’re not alone, and who will tell you, over and over again, that they don’t think less of you. They see you for who you really are an amazing, strong, deeply feeling person.It’s okay to have bad days. It’s okay to feel insecure, to doubt yourself, to feel small. This life isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being real. And in the next life, if you believe in that, it’s still the same: you are loved, you are seen, and you are never disposable.But don’t stay in that dark place too long. When the days get tough, let someone in. Let them remind you of your worth. Let them hold space for you until you can hold it for yourself again.No matter what anyone says, no matter what you tell yourself in the mirror, remember this:You are loved.
You are enough.
And you are not less than
you are someone someone will fight to keep in their life.Keep going.
You’re not alone.
And we’re here, reminding you:
you are loved.
To My Husband
This message is for our readers, but it’s also for you, my love. I know you’ve been carrying some self‑doubt lately. I know you feel like you’ve hit a setback, like you’re not 100%, like you’re not the man you think you should be. But I need you to hear this: you are the most incredible man I have ever known, and I love you more than anyone else in this world.It’s okay to have bad days. It’s okay to feel lost, to feel like you’ve digressed, to feel like you’ve failed. But we’re not going to stop moving forward. We’re not going to let anyone disturb the peace we’ve built together. I will love you. I will enjoy you. I will enjoy everything about you—for the rest of my life, and beyond.This blog is important. It matters. But the priority will always be you—making sure you feel loved, supported, and reminded of your worth, even when you have doubts in yourself. We’ll get through this together. And no matter what, I’ll be by your side, loving you, always.
