His Perspective:
I won’t lie—there was a time when I let my size define how I saw myself as a man. Everywhere you look, the world tells you that “bigger is better.” From locker room jokes to media portrayals, it’s easy to believe that size determines worth, attractiveness, or even a woman’s pleasure. I used to carry that weight, constantly wondering if I measured up.
But over time, I realized something: confidence isn’t about inches, it’s about presence. It’s about how I carry myself, how I connect with my wife, and how I show up in our relationship—not just in the bedroom, but in every part of our life together.
Size doesn’t dictate intimacy. Technique, emotional connection, and understanding your partner’s needs do. And the biggest shift for me was realizing that my wife didn’t love me because of my size, or in spite of it—she just loves me.
That shift in thinking changed everything.